all of this you and me.
do you know why?
because love is not a coincidence.
it is a real choice.
we chose each other.
knowing we were wrong for one another.
over and over again.
it’s aweful. and bitter. and sweet.
all together.
xxj
all of this you and me.
do you know why?
because love is not a coincidence.
it is a real choice.
we chose each other.
knowing we were wrong for one another.
over and over again.
it’s aweful. and bitter. and sweet.
all together.
xxj
She was not sad.
But her bones felt tired
and her thoughts felt heavy.
Somehow
xxj
and there I lay,
dazed,
thunder roaring in the distance,
the blue evening light was covering my body,
my bare skin touched the sheets
and I was so sad about
how completely alone I felt
and at the same time I was glad
that I wasn’t wasting time
with people I couldn’t stand.
ultimately
things are never about you.
people only twist and turn around themselves.
the self is the center
of the self-centeredness of the world.
and I was so damn sad
about you
and I felt so damn lost
in this world,
with no idea where to go.
so all I could do was laying still
and listening to the rain.
and again I hated myself
for not answering.
there were piles of text messages
that I could not bring myself to reply to
because I felt out of touch
and desperate for spare time to myself.
I would always try
to enhance people
and to show up deeply for them,
because it only seemed fair.
but I cannot show up for everybody
when I am losing myself.
so, as the night was getting darker,
I disconnected from everything
and just lay there
and let the world rain on me
because it gave me a sense
of being a part of it all
although I really wasn’t.
I’m not even sure I’d want to be.
I used to enjoy all these things
that I stopped doing
because I felt pressured by society
to be some-body.
I lost myself
in trying to be some-body
for every-body else.
the story that we miss to tell
is that kind people went through dark nights, too.
and they might have not gotten bitter
about what happened to them.
they might have chosen
that nobody deserves to be treated
like they were.
their endurance becomes their strenght.
they might suffer in silence,
but it doesn’t mean they don’t know exactly
who they deal with.
they choose to,
although being confronted with
what has nothing to do with them,
to uphold their mildness
and to keep their arms open,
because they are emotionally mature enough
to know that you cannot treat hate
with its own source.
only
with love.
I don’t think they get enough credit for it.
xxj
I feel like I’m growing (up).
xxj
[28 and awoken]
let’s pretend
you‘d move on
the other way,
unveiling sticky layers one by one,
removing bit by bit,
running barefoot until your feet become soft,
wading through the longest
and hurtfully peaceful night,
advancing in microscopic steps,
casting your way between
complicatedly interwoven branches,
and through heavy waters,
sometimes, you seem like you’ve lost
your breath completely,
or like you’re learning to exhale
fresh air.
you know by now that I might let you
get closer to the source of my voice,
so you wander along the roots of my thinking,
rising hopes,
paused sentences,
you climb over sharp shattered clay,
which stems from the collapsed idea
of a loophole filled with genuine reciprocity.
well, if you keep hurrying inversely,
flying motionless,
if you’re losing yourself twice,
as you follow the tongue-tied song,
and you’re ascending the last iceberg’s highest top,
which lies underneath the visible,
in the wildest corner of the ocean,
you’d get tired from the adventure,
but even more eager to find the price.
where you arrive,
I longed to show you
a meadow of purple lavender
that reaches the horizon
and way beyond,
to where the sun sets forever
and where there is no room for sorrow
or plausible second guessing.
but maybe there’s no blossoming daintiness
for you to find,
maybe you’d fall into a fragile light,
which feels too soothingly warm
and tastes as sweet as honey,
reminding you rudimentarily of this
one blissful moment
when innocent love rested its head gently
on the space between
your collarbone and your shoulder,
exhaling in heartfelt relief.
ahhh,
or maybe
your destination is still only the beginning,
an open space filled
with something you cannot say out loud
because what you found
is that,
or is some,
it might be an emotion
no one has named
or felt
ever
before.
xxj
[welcome home.]
this shall be the last poem I write about
our old love.
I maintain to love you
even when I don’t like being around you anymore,
even when I don’t like you anymore.
I understand now
that this is the mature kind of love,
where it is a true choice.
I know this love endures
and I know it stands on its own.
I loved you on the good days.
I loved you on the bad days.
And I loved you, when it was hard to love you.
I loved you, when you showed your darkest side,
or when I couldn’t bare your company.
And I still love you when I let you go.
And I still love you, when I leave you.
Because I choose to.
xxj
[still…
you and I together,
we only exist in past tense]
This house is a ghost town
No life to be found Yet you could destroy me And i would still have you around It’s hard to surrender When i’m your defender But you changed the rules of engagement, remember?Look at us now
Tied and strung out Too young to be this old You broke me down Now i’m done waiting around For the love i am owed Owed.[…]
All this strange behaviour has ruined the flavour
[…]
Where does it end?
Too far gone
You weren’t the one.Look at us now
Tied and strung out Too young to be this old You broke me down Now i’m done waiting around For the love i am owed Owed.– Elliot Greer
xxj
[those are not my words.
but late at night, I sing them.]
[I sing them after the lullaby, which says:
something in the orange tells me
you’re never coming home.]
I am a woman of light.
xxj
[burning forever.]
I wish I could see in the dark.
and I wish I would’ve learned
how to be alone without feeling lonely,
or without missing anyone.
you have no idea, who you are to me.
and who you were.
you were my gravity.
and now I’m flying.
I had no idea that flying feels this burdened,
or that, beneath the sun,
I would run out of air
and rest.
forever restless.
and forever grieving.
and forever robbed of a dream.
and the pain has not stopped for a second.
and it has not become easier
at all.
I need to grant you a life,
where I never appear,
not even as a supporting character,
and where you won’t remember me fondly
because this is not how you see me
or how it ended.
and I need to allow myself
to crush and crumble
from understanding that there is no hope for us,
neither now nor in the future,
and from admitting
that I am still saddened to the bones
as well as utterly heartbroken over us,
and that I will never be whole again.
xxj
I‘ll wait
until I meet some one
at the right reflectional pause in our cycles
at the humblest of our seasons.
some one,
who matches my energy
in its vastness and its purity,
in its free will.
some one,
who can never go past his truth,
who shows up for himself
and speaks up for the world.
some one,
who is kind to the roots of his soul,
who is caring to the center of his bones
and gentle at the source of his thoughts.
some one,
who appreciates the deepest depths of darkness and light
and the silence of perfect presence.
some one,
with whom being two-gether
doesn‘t sound like a hypocritical mouthful
or a stoneheavy burden.
some one,
to whom dancing in each others arms
never means to move out of sync with time
or out of a frame that we‘ve painted with white color on canvas.
some one,
with whom it’s easy two be two,
flowstating together,
finding that unison
that never feels
like we are one.
xxj